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How do I establish a bedtime routine for my baby?

Updated: Nov 5, 2023

Bedtime routines are the magical rituals that help little ones transition from the bustling world of play to the peaceful realm of sleep. By establishing consistent wind-down rituals, you can create a soothing environment and set the stage for a restful night’s sleep. So, let’s cover some of our tops tips to help your baby relax and drift off to dreamland.

Embrace the Power of Consistency

Consistency is the cornerstone of successful wind-down rituals. Babies thrive on predictability, so aim to establish a consistent routine that signals it’s time for sleep. By following the same sequence of activities each night, you create a sense of familiarity and security for your little one.


Quiet Time

Snuggle up with your babe and engage in a soothing activity, such as reading a book. Choose a favourite story or two and relax into sleepy time. Additionally, playing soft and calming music in the background can further enhance the relaxing atmosphere, just be sure to switch it over to the white noise to ensure sleep isn’t interrupted.


Calm Bathing Rituals

Use warm water and add a few drops of lavender, a natural baby wash and some Epsom salts and wash the day away in a calming environment. The warm water will help relax your baby’s muscles, preparing them for a restful night’s sleep.


Gentle Massage

Enter the world of gentle touch as you embark on a relaxing massage session. Use a baby-safe oil or lotion and softly massage your baby’s arms, legs, and back. The soothing strokes will not only promote relaxation but also strengthen the bond between you and your little one. YouTube some videos on this one so you’re doing this safely and respecting your baby.


Dim the Lights

As you transition towards sleep, create a dimly lit environment in your baby’s room. Soft lighting signals to your baby’s brain that it’s time to wind down. Consider using a red/warm nightlight with a dimmer switch to achieve a gentle and soothing glow that helps induce a sense of calm. Lights definitely work against the body’s natural systems so avoid screens and bright lights.


White Noise

Harness the power of sound to create a peaceful atmosphere. Use a white noise machine or play soft lullabies to drown out any external noises and create a soothing soundscape. These gentle sounds mimic the familiar and comforting environment of the womb, lulling your baby into a deep and restful sleep. Be sure to turn off the music for sleep as the pitches and tones can wake your baby between sleep cycles more easily. White noise is goals!


Cuddles and Snuggles

Enjoy some precious moments of connection through mindful cuddling. Hold your baby close, gently rocking or swaying, and create a sense of security and comfort. Use this time to whisper sweet words of love, providing reassurance that they are safe and protected.


Create a Sleep-Friendly Environment

Create a sleep space that ensures your baby’s room is conducive to rest. Keep the temperature comfortable, around 18-22°C. Use blackout blinds such as the Sleepy Sundays (use code THEPARENTINGEDIT10 for 10% off) to block out any excess light that might disturb your baby’s sleep.


Avoid Overstimulation

As bedtime approaches, minimize activities that may overstimulate your baby. Avoid engaging in rough play or exposing them to bright lights or loud noises. Creating a calm and serene atmosphere will help your baby transition smoothly into a state of relaxation.


Timing Is Everything

Start your wind-down rituals about 20 minutes before your baby’s desired sleep time. Adjust this timeframe based on your baby’s individual needs and cues. Pay attention to their signals to ensure you’re not initiating sleep too early or too late. Hint: If babe wakes very soon after falling asleep, it’s likely they’re overtired so shorten the awake window!


Check out our example of wind-down routine for your babe!

So, in the quest for calmer nights and well-rested babies, establishing consistent wind-down rituals can work wonders.. Remember that it may take some trial and error to find the perfect wind-down rituals that work for your child, always be prepared to try something for a few days to a week before deciding whether it’s working or not!


If you find this hasn’t solved your sleep challenges, then you probably need more pieces to your sleep puzzle! For more in-depth guidance and sleep solutions, check out our comprehensive sleep guides. They offer a wealth of knowledge, practical tips, and step-by-step approaches to help you navigate the world of baby sleep!

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